Every South African abroad has faced the question — and fumbled it. Here is what to actually say when someone asks what our food is like.
You are sitting at a dinner table abroad, or standing in a queue, or meeting a new colleague, and they ask the question every South African living away from home knows is coming: "So what is South African food actually like?"
And then — if you are anything like me — you open your mouth and find that the words do not quite come. You say something like "it is sort of... a mix of things" and trail off, because how do you compress a cuisine that carries the fingerprints of a dozen cultures, spans everything from a braai in the garden to a potjie on the coals, and means something completely different depending on which kitchen you grew up in?
Let me help you with that. Here is a guide to describing South African food well — the key ideas, the best dishes to mention, the comparisons that actually land, and the words that do it justice.
Start with This: "It Is a Blended Cuisine"
The single most useful framing you can give someone is that South African food is a blended cuisine — not one tradition, but many traditions that have been cooking alongside each other for centuries and are now genuinely fused. That framing immediately tells the curious person two things: that it is diverse, and that it is its own thing, not a copy of anything else.
You can add a single sentence of history: "The Cape was a crossroads — Dutch and British settlers, enslaved people from Malaysia and Indonesia, indentured workers from India, indigenous African communities — each one left something in the pot, and over three hundred years it all became something new." Most people find that genuinely fascinating and it explains why one country can produce both bobotie and bunny chow.
The Six Things That Define Our Food
After the blended-cuisine framing, these are the ideas that paint the clearest picture:
Sweet and savoury, together
One of the most distinctive signatures of our cooking — particularly from the Cape Malay tradition — is that sweet and savoury live on the same plate. Bobotie has chutney and apricot in the mince; sosaties are marinated in a sweet curry sauce with dried apricots; yellow rice comes with raisins. This combination is not an accident — it is one of the most characteristic flavour profiles in the country and a good anchor for any description.
The braai is not just cooking — it is culture
When you explain the braai to someone who has not been to South Africa, tell them it is more than a barbecue. It is a social institution, a weekend ritual, a way of gathering around fire that crosses every background. It has its own rules, its own traditions, its own national day. The food — boerewors, chops, sosaties, braai broodjies — is the excuse; the fire and the people around it are the point.
Hearty, filling and built for sharing
South African food was born in kitchens that had to feed many people from modest ingredients. It is generous by nature — big pots, stretchy dishes, food that expects more people to arrive. A potjie feeds whoever is standing near the fire; a pot of samp and beans becomes more the longer it cooks. That hospitality is baked into the food itself.
Warm spice, not just heat
People sometimes assume all South African food is fiery, which is only partly true. Durban curries are genuinely hot, and peri-peri has its kick. But much of our cooking uses spice for warmth and fragrance rather than fire — cinnamon, coriander, turmeric, cumin and clove are foundational, and they give the food depth and complexity rather than heat. Make that distinction and you will save the milder-palated person from expecting something they are not ready for.
Maize is the heart of the table
Mealie meal — ground white maize — is our most important staple, cooked into pap in all its forms: soft for breakfast, firm for supper, crumbly for a braai side. It is as central to South African eating as rice is to Asian cuisines or bread is to European ones. Mention pap and you have mentioned something that appears on more South African tables, every day, than anything else.
Cured and preserved meat is an obsession
Biltong and droëwors — air-dried, spiced cured meats — are not merely snacks. They are an obsession and a national identity marker. Every South African abroad will go to extraordinary lengths to find or make biltong. Nothing in the world quite replicates it, and the moment you put a piece in the hands of someone who has never had it, you will see their face change. Lead with biltong when you want to make a convert.
The Dishes to Name — and What to Say About Each
What to say when they ask for examples
- Bobotiecurried mince baked under a golden egg custard — sweet, savoury, uniquely ours
- Biltongair-dried spiced beef — nothing else like it, start here
- Boereworsour coiled spiced sausage, always on the braai, always the first thing off
- Bunny chowa hollowed bread loaf filled with curry — Durban street food at its best
- Pap and shebamaize porridge and tomato relish — the everyday staple of millions
- Koeksistersplaited fried dough dunked in ice-cold syrup — the stickiest sweet in the land
- Milk tart (melktert)silky cinnamon custard tart — the nation's favourite teatime dessert
- Potjiekosa slow-cooked layered stew in a cast iron pot over coals
Comparisons That Actually Work
Sometimes the fastest way to describe a dish is by reference to something familiar. These comparisons are imperfect — as all comparisons are — but they land quickly and get the conversation moving:
- Bobotie is like a savoury bread pudding — a baked mince dish with a soft egg topping, sweet and spiced.
- Pap is like polenta — soft maize porridge, the everyday starch, served beside whatever is in the pot.
- Biltong is nothing like beef jerky — say this specifically, because the comparison always comes up and it always undersells it. Biltong is air-dried, not cooked, and it is softer, richer and far more satisfying.
- Potjiekos is like a French cassoulet — a slow, layered stew built in a heavy pot, cooked low over coals for hours.
- Koeksisters are like a syrup-soaked doughnut — if it were plaited, fried and dunked in ice-cold sugar syrup while still hot from the oil.
What South African Food Is Not
Clearing up misconceptions is as useful as the description itself:
- It is not all spicy. Durban curries are hot; much of the rest is warmly spiced rather than fiery. Clarify this early.
- It is not one cuisine. There is no single "South African food" — there are many cuisines within the country, shaped by community, region and heritage.
- Biltong is not jerky. We have covered this, but it bears repeating.
- Pap is not just porridge. It is a staple starch eaten at any meal, in textures ranging from soft and creamy to stiff and sliceable — far more versatile than the word "porridge" suggests.
Frequently Asked Questions
Just Say: Come and Eat
Ultimately, no description does it justice. The best thing you can do for someone who has never tasted South African food is invite them to the table — and let the bobotie, the biltong and the braai do the explaining themselves.
— K.B. Shivuri, The Seasoned Hearth

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